watching and waiting

with my nerw album out and playing live with friends,i am kind of in standstill position.i want to play in a band and make people happy.i also want to make gods people happy and knowledgable by getting the new album "seconds" out in a timely fashion and i have.
but i want to keep playing.i have invites all over to play it seems.sadly 4 a cross wasdnt one of them.what beats me is why they wont let me play when a dozen other local and far off bands will>?i must ask them!
it would be a ball for us all to get up there and do gods music.
so im deliberating..should i start my own group?
some voted yes,while others think i should join one.
i am going to jam every other week with the guys fromn last night(the big river band) and also with bands that are gigging.if i am as good as people say on drums and i am.it wont be long before i get snagged up.
but im cuatiose it doesnt interfere with my christian solo stuff.
actually whats kind of ironic is that at the places i go where its not a christian gig,people want to buy my 2 albums.at christian gigs it seems everyone is all on a high for jesus but do they keep it all week?
who knows.im still confused by them..the christian groups.they claim to be honoring christ.they say its "not about us"
but of course its about them..all of them because if it wasnt about them they would never be on a stage at all.
i am not being mean..just making an observation thats all.
how do they know what to do with thier music?
many christian groups are not promoted properly because they feel a hands off approach is best.
i never felt that way in any group i have been in.
i feel its a go get em world out there and if you wanna get people to hear your album or come to see you..then you have to push your live acts and albums hard.
this rule applies to all bands out there not just one or two.
im not directing this at any certain group.
its just that i have been doing this longer than many of them and they really dont know what they are doing.
they practice all the time..play out and then practice more.
but they never get a recording contract.
they would if they went about it correctly.
promo kits..anything saying why they feel they need to be signed.i personally plan on getting signed.its just a matter of time............